how should i come out to my family?

[haidee_08]

well im teh youngest among five and i think my parenst have an idea that i am a lesbian...
but we never really talk with each other abour personal stuffs...
i am still in college and im financially dependent on them so im sacred that they might let me leave the house...

do you think that i should tell them?
how should i tell them?

[cram22]

that's hard.

i never really thought about coming out or making an announcement of sorts to my family or anyone for that matter.
do you have to? what difference does it make?

[haidee_08]

i dont want to hide anymore...i mean i want to be free to express what i really am...

and also for my own peace of mind

[pempem]

I didn't have to come out. My mom figured it out by herself. Apparently, sneeking in my cel filled with juicy txts from my B lover wasn't really a bad idea..

[haidee_08]

my mom never touches my cellphone/....

[yuri]

timing is most important.

but do u really need to tell them?
maybe you'll just tell them what they already know.

i never felt the need to come out to my family because i trust that they know me too well.
my mom (my dad isn't with us anymore) and sibs know about my girlfriends and the girls i'm going out with though i didn't formally tell them about it.

and i'm comfortable that they know that much.