what will you do if your gf will ask for a space?

[mhaycie]

hey there im mhaycie...

just want to ask po what will you do if your gf will ask for a space? or sabihing friends muna kayo? what will you feel? are you going to wait or just accept the fact that you will never be together again.???

[yuri]

pagsinabi sakin ng gf ko na gusto nya ng space, sasabihin ko sa kanya:
ano ka astronaut? cge sumakay ka na ng spaceship.

i don't believe in cool offs-- if a person needs a quiet time or time to be with herself (which is normal), i don't see why it should affect your relationship.

Eh di magquiet time ka dyan, andito lang ako. Quietly waiting na matapos ka magmunimuni. Pwde naman ganon di ba? Bat dapat magcool off or maging friends muna.

This is the lamest excuse for me. Feeling ko pag ganito, di sure kung gusto makipaghiwalay or not.

I believe if you or your partner is having doubts like this, you should be open and talk to each other about it so it's fair game- you both decide and no unwanted surprises. Hindi ung magaask ng space or to be friends na lang tas malalaman mo na lang bigla na may iba na. Sucks.

[mhaycie]

thanks sa reply..un nga whats confusing me.
she even said i should not expect.
im confused kasi nagcocontradict yung sinasabi niya sa actions niya.
should i still wait or not.
i was given advice not to which i know is the best thing i should do.

[yuri]

expect nothing and tell her u'r not gonna put your life on hold for her for a long time.

[haidee_08]

i totally agree with yuri...

your gf just couldnt think of anything to break up with you...

dont wait

[waterlily32]

hmmm....kapag gusto ng isang tao ang cool off isa lang ibig sabihin nyan gusto na makipag break kaso walang enough courage to sa say beak na tayo, ang cool off parang lighter terms lang yan...if sasabihin yan sa yo dont expect nalang,expect the unexpected...

ang mahirap lang nyan after a few days me iba na pala...hahhaah it sucks!!...yan ang perfect alibi ng iba.kaya beware everytime ginagamit ang term na yan..